I'm too nice for XHamster

I discovered I am too nice for this site. I am not after anything or anyone. When a woman messages me, they want something from me. They don't want a conversation. That is why when a stranger PMs me, I pretty much know what they want. It starts off with "Hello" and then they are like "Let's meet and fuck". At that point, I respond with 'Please leave me alone'. And the ones I try to have a conversation with disappear. Nice guys like me don't belong here.